Nikki Barfield

Nikki Barfield, LCSW, CSTshe/her

Clinical Social Worker

Saint Petersburg, Florida, United States

Also available by telehealth: Florida

You don't have to choose between healing yourself and strengthening your relationships. You can do both.

About

I help adults and couples reconnect with the parts of themselves they've learned to hide, criticize, or fear, so they can experience more confidence, authenticity, and joy with others. Whether you're navigating trauma, life transitions, relationship challenges, or questions about intimacy and sexuality, we'll work beneath the surface to create lasting change. My goal isn't to 'fix' you. It's to help you like all parts of yourself and build the life and relationships you truly want.

As a Certified Sex Therapist with advanced training in IFS and EMDR, I bring over 25 years of experience helping adults and couples heal from trauma, navigate intimacy, and strengthen relationships. For individuals, I use Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EMDR when indicated. For couples, I apply Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO, the IFS model for couples) and the Gottman Method. Every client also benefits from my Certified Sex Therapist skillset. These research-based approaches build skills that create lasting change inside and outside of sessions.

I offer a warm, nonjudgmental space where every part of you is welcome. I see individuals, couples, and families, and I'm affirming of LGBTQ+ identities, kink, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy. I offer in-person sessions in St. Petersburg and online throughout Florida, with availability Monday through Saturday, including afternoon, evening, and weekend appointments.

I believe expertise matters. With focused caseloads and advanced training in Sex Therapy, EMDR, IFS, Gottman Method, Discernment Counseling, and Premarital Counseling, I'm committed to providing the highest level of personalized care. If you're ready for meaningful, lasting change, I'd be honored to walk alongside you. Reach out for a free 15-minute consultation.

Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Trauma & PTSD
  • Grief & loss
  • Relationship issues
  • Couples therapy
  • Family conflict
  • Parenting
  • Self-esteem
  • Stress management
  • Life transitions
  • LGBTQ+ identity
  • Race & cultural identity
  • Career counselling

Approaches

  • EMDR
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Gottman method
  • Solution-focused
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Works with

  • Adults
  • Couples
  • Families
  • LGBTQ+
  • Older adults

Sessions

In-personVideo

Languages

  • English

Logistics

Fees

$150per session

Individual sessions $150; Couple sessions $200. Accepts HSA, Amex, Discover, Mastercard, Visa. In-network with Spring Health EAP and Lyra EAP only; superbill available for out-of-network reimbursement.

Insurance

Accepts: Lyra EAP, Spring Health EAP

To provide the highest level of personalized care, I operate as a private-pay practice and am in-network only with Spring Health and Lyra EAP. If you have out-of-network (OON) benefits, I can provide a superbill for you to submit to your insurance for possible reimbursement.

Licensed or authorized in

  • Florida

Credentials

  • MSW, University of South Florida, 1999
  • Certificate, Certified Sex Therapist, Modern Sex Therapy Institute, 2026
  • Certificate, EMDR Certified, EMDRIA, 2025
Ready to start? Reach out directly:(727) 353-1345