Karen Baker

Karen Baker, RP, CTP Diplshe/her

Registered Psychotherapist

Telehealth only: Ontario

The path to enlightenment travels through the shadowlands, I will walk with you.

About

Therapy, to me, is about discovery.

We humans are mysteries to ourselves. We find ourselves in messy situations and don't know how we got there — or how to get out. We do things we regret and don't know why, then turn around and punish ourselves for it. We have enormous capacity for joy, but also for deep suffering. And even though this seems to be a universal experience, we tend to carry the burden alone as we struggle and stew.

Sometimes the emotions that frighten us most — shame, rage, grief, fear — get exiled. Pushed into the shadowlands of the unconscious, where we hope they'll stay quiet. But they don't. The more we ignore them, the harder they work to make themselves known. They show up in our patterns, our reactions, our relationships, our dreams.

Depth therapy is not about having the answers, or knowing the way. It's about being willing to go into uncertain terrain, together. I think of myself less as a guide and more as a seasoned travelling companion. Someone who has made many journeys, who won't disappear or lean on you when things get rough, and has learned not to be afraid of getting lost - for that is exactly when the most important, necessary, and beautiful discoveries are often made.

Together, we begin by building what you'll need for the journey: tools for safety and steadiness, a growing capacity to read your own inner weather — to recognize when your nervous system sounds the alarm, and to find your way back to stable ground. Next we start to map the terrain — looking for patterns in thoughts, behaviours, emotional responses. Sometimes symbols, images, or dreams appear as unexpected signposts along the way.

Deeper in, we enter the shadowlands. This part of the work asks something of you — and we move through it carefully, at a pace your system can sustain. Some of it involves grieving, or sitting with emotions that feel unbearable. But through this, something shifts: what once felt monstrous begins to reveal itself as misunderstood. These exiled parts carry messages — communications from a truer self — about what you need, what you want, who you actually are, and always were.

The goal is not to arrive somewhere fixed, but to become someone who knows how to navigate life, relationships, and transitions; someone equipped and experienced enough to continue exploring confidently on your own.

Wherever you currently are on your path — if you find yourself curious about your own inner world, willing to face what you find there — perhaps I can be a trustworthy ally to walk with you on your journey.

Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Grief & loss
  • Self-esteem
  • Stress management
  • Burnout
  • Eating disorders
  • Trauma & PTSD

Approaches

  • Psychodynamic
  • Somatic / body-based
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Works with

  • Adults

Sessions

Video

Languages

  • English

Logistics

Fees

Sliding scale available $125 - $175.

Insurance

Receipts provided for insurance.

Licensed or authorized in

  • Ontario

Frequently asked questions

What does a first session with you look like?
I offer a free introductory session - which is, essentially, just a conversation. It's an opportunity for you to ask any questions, to get a sense of how I work, and decide it feels like a good match.
Do you offer evening or weekend appointments?
Yes. My regular office hours are 12 - 8pm M-F. I have evening appointment available through the week.
How quickly can I book a first appointment?
Depending on both of our schedules, we can usually find time for a first visit within a couple of days to a week.
What should I do if I'm not sure therapy is right for me?
I suggest you simply start by booking an introductory session. It's not a commitment and it's the best way to get the lay of the land, get a sense of how the therapist works, and a feel for what sessions will be like. From there you can decide whether it feels right for you.
What's your approach to working with Anxiety?
Anxiety is often an indication that we are conflicted about something, even if it's unconscious. Sometimes different parts of ourselves have competing agendas - I help clients discover these hidden aspects of themselves, and the beliefs or needs driving them. Bringing our inner world into awareness can help us feel better able to make informed choices in our outer world. This, in itself, is usually accompanied by a sense of empowerment, and also relief.
Who do you typically work best with?
Anyone who is curious about their inner world and willing to uncover the depths and wonders to be found there.

Credentials

  • CTP Dipl, Centre for Training in Psychotherapy, Toronto, 2022
  • DC, CMCC, Toronto, 2004
  • BSc, Queen's University, Kingston, 1998